MAGGIE'S BIRTHDAY GUESTBOOK
For her 20th BIRTHDAY, August 23, 2000
Total Entries: 19
Erin Rome
Friday, 8/25/00, 7:14 PM
Mags- Sorry this birthday greeting is a little late, I know I did the same thing
to you last year :) I have been thinking about you even more than usual all
week and though the pain fades a little as time goes on, my memory of you is
as vivid as the day I met you. As time goes on, more and more of the little
things we shared and talked about come back to me, comforting me and
making me smile. You live on in my heart forever, until we meet again.
Happy Birthday and I love you. Erin
From:
Rochester Hills, MI
E-mail:
ERIN 1224@aol.com
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Marti Bloch
Thursday, 8/24/00, 5:49 PM
A total loss of words. It is just sooo sad. It is so much pain and grief for
loved ones left behind because of a selfish, evil act by someone. I find
comfort in knowing that you're in Jesus'arms. You will not be forgotten.
From:
Kalamazoo
E-mail:
Blochparty454@cs.com
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Veronica
Minard
Thursday, 8/24/00, 10:53 AM
Maggie, I know that you must be peaceful and that you can see all of the
love that there is in this world for you. I am ever amazed by how you have
touched so many peoples hearts and I wish that I could have met you and
known the happines that you so obviously brought into these peoples lives.
You are obviously such an amazing girl! Happy Birthday, and may all of
those who were touched by you find strength in this hard time and remember
your smile and smile with you. God bless you and all who are continually
struggling with this loss. Veronica Minard
From:
Greenville, MI
E-mail:
k97vm01@kzoo.edu
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Sarah
Thursday, 8/24/00, 10:27 AM
Happy Birthday Mags, Love you.
From:
Plainwell
E-mail:
as704302@hope.edu
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Nick Duiker
Thursday, 8/24/00, 10:13 AM
Happy birthday Maggie. After finding out it was your birthday I left work
early to think about you and your family. I pray for you and your family every
night before I go to bed. I prayed for a long time yesterday asking for what
to say on this website. I hope I will be able to do something in your memory
to make the world a better place. I know that you are smiling down on all of
us and celebrating your birthday with us all. God bless you and your family.
Dear Lord and heavenly father, Please let Maggie know that we are all
thinking of her and miss her. Lord please take care of Maggie's parents and
family because they need your embrace. Shelter them from any more pain in
this world. In Jesus's name I pray. Amen
From:
Cleveland Oh
E-mail:
k97nd03@kzoo.edu
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Angi Millward
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 9:55 PM
I just want to say Happy Birthday Maggie. I know we weren't close, but
what has happened is so unfair and it has made me realize how cruel life and
people can be. I know you are in a better place now, where you are safe
and you can watch over your loved ones. Your memory and spirit will
remain in our hearts forever, the way that you have touched so many is
incredible. God Bless...Angi
From:
Midland, MI
E-mail:
partysweets@aol.com
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Brad
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 7:35 PM
Happy Birthday Maggie; you'll always be in my heart. Love ya, Brad
From:
Plainwell
E-mail:
smizasch@hotmail.com
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Mary Duiker
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 7:11 PM
Even though I have never met the majority of Maggie's friends and family,
you have been in my thoughts and prayers many times over the days, weeks,
and months since the senseless tragedy that took her life and changed the
lives of those who were touched by such a beautiful young woman. Our lives
were also touched by this tragedy because our son, Nick, was devastated by
Maggie's death. His life will never be the same again, but I don't think he will
ever regret the short relationship they had even though it was not destined to
be a long one. As a mother, it was difficult to try and comfort one who was
hurting so badly because there were no words that could really offer a
respite from the pain. I feel at a loss as I write this because I am finding it
difficult to find the words to express my admiration for what you have
accomplished in Maggie's memory. In life I believe we make a mark in the
number and ways in which we touch other's lives. This web page is a
wonderful tribute to a lovely girl whose memory will live in the hearts of those
people whose lives have been touched by Maggie. May this help give you
peace and a way to reach others whose lives have been touched by violence.
Sincerely, Mary Duiker
From:
Brook Park, Ohio
E-mail:
maryduiker@hotmail.com
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Meg
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 6:58 PM
Hi Maggie, We miss you so much and love you. August is a special month
for me. Mike's Bday, Your Bday, Ryan joined our family 13 years ago and
Terra's birthday is on Friday. We spent a week last August having fun-
shopping, movies, jacuzzi,doing puzzles, girl talk, playing with my kids and
we and we celebrated Jamie's christening. I was so glad your came to your
goddaughter special day. I love you sweet girl and we all miss you so much.
Love, Aunt Meg, Uncle Mike,Ryan, Josh, Kevin, Samantha,Chad,Terra,
Ross, and Jamie
From:
Pittsburgh
E-mail:
MMNeary@aol.com
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Tom Holloway
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 5:32 PM
Maggie: I know you can look down and see all the love everyone has for
you. It's hard to make sense of why you had to leave us so soon. I
occasionally see a butterfly and feel your presence is with us though. Happy
20th Birthday! We miss you!
From:
Mattawan, Mi.
E-mail:
holloway@macconnect.com
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Bill
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 4:29 PM
Maggie-Happy 20th birthday. Love always, Uncle Bill, Aunt Nancy and
your cousins John, Kelly and Douglas
From:
Charlottesville
E-mail:
wwardle@attglobal.net
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Kristie
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 3:31 PM
Margaret Lynn- It has been wonderful getting to know you. Now that you
are gone it has been a joy and struggle celebrating your life. As I spend time
thinking of you and doing the things you enjoyed doing I ask myself how did
you find the time and energy to do all of these things and manage to do well
in school? You are such a great person. I miss you. Happy 20th.
BithdayYou will always be with me- your sister and friend, Kristie P.S. Tell
my father up there to stop bothering you:)
From:
Washington, DC by way of Plainwell, Mi
E-mail:
krismarieg@hotmail.com
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lyn maurer
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 11:44 AM
maggie - we miss you and as golf season approaches I stop often to
remember the good times coach
From:
kalamazoo college
E-mail:
lmaurer@kzoo.edu
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Brent Jackson
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 9:25 AM
My name is Brent Jackson and I knew Maggie relatively little which is to say
that I had heard of her through a dear friend, Nick Duiker. Nick and I have
been friends since our freshman year together and I have shared his sorrow
and grief throughout some of this tragedy. I knew Maggie's friends and I also
am good friends with a few of them as well. Unfortuantely, I don't think I had
ever met Maggie one on one so for me that is dissapointing. However,
through shared stories and pictures and many wonderful memories I have
been able to get closer to this angel than I was before. Please take this day
and remember the wonderful things about Maggie, such as her smile, and
cherish what is God's gift. I thank you for this opportunity to speak and I
wish you the best and much love throughout our lives. Sincerely Yours, Brent
S. Jackson
From:
Grand Haven
E-mail:
k97bj01@kzoo.edu
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Candice DeBoer
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 6:07 AM
Everyday I grieve for Maggie. But even in death her friendship has taught me
alot. I have learned not to waist one single day...because each moment is a
gift, and I am so lucky to be living it. When I have a bad day I think of
Maggie and how much I wish I could share my life with her, and somehow it
helps to make the sorrow of the day feel very small. Even though I am far
away from the place that we met and brought us together, I have carried the
pain of her loss with me, and so will all of those whose lives she touched.
She will be remembered for the lessons she taught us in her life and in her
untimely death. Me Ke Aloha Maggie. Candice
From:
Greenville North Carolina
E-mail:
candice_nmfs69@hotmail.com
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Toni Rulo
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 5:30 AM
Maggie, I've heard so many beautiful things about you. I just know that
today will be very special for your family, remembering the love you all
shared.
From:
Hartford
E-mail:
arulo@snet.com
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mary ayres
Tuesday, 8/22/00, 9:34 PM
Maggie, you're always in my thoughts and heart. wish you could be here to
spend your b-day with all of us who love you so much. wouldn't have
wanted to miss my other big sister's 20th. all my love, mary
From:
plainwell
E-mail:
mary.ayres@hope.edu
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Aunt Susan
Tuesday, 8/22/00, 8:09 PM
Wish you were here so we could blow the candles out together. I am
honored to share a birthday with you. We all miss you including the kitties,
Dexter and Cally. I will never forget you! Love, Aunt Susan
E-mail:
susano@home.com
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Rick
Tuesday, 8/22/00, 7:49 PM
Happy Birthday! We're thinking of you all day long. Love, Mom and Rick
From:
home
MAGGIE'S GUESTBOOK -- JANUARY TO AUGUST, 2000
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Total Entries: 100
Pat Keller
Friday, 9/22/00, 7:50 AM
Friday, 9/22/00, 7:50 AMStill thinking and praying for you all.From:Plainwell High SchoolE-mail: pkeller@accn.org _______________________
Sarabeth (Clark) ParidoTuesday, 9/19/00, 11:05 AM
Tuesday, 9/19/00, 11:05 AMTo Maggie: I loved playing music with you and singing with you while you played the piano before band practices. I miss you and regret that we did not become closer friends. I think about you often and pray for your family daily. Until I see you again... To Maggie's Family: I know the pain still lingers, but Maggie was a strong person and I know that you inspired that strength within her. She'll always be in our hearts...From:Chicago, ILE-mail: SCP7700@hotmail.com _______________________
Heidi Fahrenbacher
Thursday, 8/31/00, 11:38 PM
Mags, I forgot to tell you that I made a piece for you! love, Heidi
From:
Plainwell, MI
E-mail:
k98hf01@kzoo.edu
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Heidi Fahrenbacher
Thursday, 8/31/00, 11:24 PM
Maggie, I leave for Germany on Sunday. I know that you were suppose to
come with me and right now i am crying b/c i miss you and i want you to
come with . I have forgiven Neenef and I also know that Nick is not to
blame, but I love you and I miss you a lot. I wish you were able to come to
Oktober fest with Jason, Dan, Jeff, and I but know you can't. I think of you
everyday and I will think of you everyday in Germany b/c you are suppose
to be with me here. I called your mother and your grandma but I know it is
hard to talk to me b/c of what happened. I think of our freshmen year in high
school and how much fun we had. I think of us of the third green on the back
of the Prairies and how we used to gossip about guys. I miss you so much. I
love you. -Heidi Fahrenbacher
From:
Plainwell, MI
E-mail:
k98hf01@kzoo.edu
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Peter Chaivre
Thursday, 8/31/00, 6:37 PM
From:
Rice University, Houston, TX
E-mail:
chaivrep@rice.edu
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Marilyn J. LaPlante
Thursday, 8/31/00, 10:54 AM
It is so sad to think that Maggie will not see her 20th birthday. She made
such an impact on her friends at Kalamazoo College that her spirit will stay
alive within them. She will not be forgotten because she is a continuing part
of so many people.
E-mail:
mjoanlaplante@hotmail.com
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David Fatzinger
Monday, 8/28/00, 6:49 AM
I think about your loss and struggle every day.
From:
KPH
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Hans Duiker
Sunday, 8/27/00, 8:02 PM
I am the older brother of Nick Duiker, who attended school with Maggie.
Not going through the tragedy myself it did effect me. My brother felt as if he
were responsible for it. I just wanted to say that I am truly sorry for
everything that has gone on in your lives. It has been really hard on all of us in
the Duiker household. Again I am sorry and I do pray for all of those that
this has affected. Maggie will always be remembered!!
From:
Cleveland Ohio
E-mail:
hansduiker@hotmail.com
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Gary
Sunday, 8/27/00, 1:21 PM
A few years back my family lost a very close friend and it felt like our guts
were ripped out. I wrote his parents a peom / prayer that seem to help and I
wish to share two lines out of it with you because it seems to apply. "I find a
little solitude knowing that Maggie took a little bit of us with her to heaven,
Just as we have kept a little bit of her here on earth." May God bless you
and your family.
From:
KY
E-mail:
tatawawa@yahoo.com
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Amy
Thursday, 8/24/00, 9:49 AM
From:
Otsego
E-mail:
a_sours@hotmail.com
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Celie and Herm Rossi
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 5:08 PM
Happy Birthday Maggie. We will always remember.
From:
Grass Lake, Michigan
E-mail:
celia_herm_rossi@netzero.net
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Jenifer Simson
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 2:28 PM
Thinking of Maggie's friends and family on her birthday... Wishing you all
well as Maggie would wish for you.
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Rudy Duiker
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 1:35 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you on this and every day. Although I
never had the opportunity to meet Maggie, I feel that I do know her. This
feeling came from my son Nick. I know that he misses her too. I can
empathize with you on your tragic loss, I too had a brother that met an
untimely death and still think of him especially on special days. May you find
peace in this trying time.
From:
Cleveland OH
E-mail:
rudy.duiker@tri-c.cc.oh.u
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Emily Hanlon
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 12:22 PM
Peace and love for you this day. Although I've never met you, Maggie and all
of you have become a part of me through Susan. with love Emily
From:
NY
E-mail:
ehanlon@bestweb.net
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Hermann Bloch
Wednesday, 8/23/00, 12:12 PM
Happy birthday to one who has inspired so many lives. May memories of
greatnes and goodness overshadow her earthly absence. And although she is
terribly missed in person we recognize her endearing spirit lives on. Thanks,
Maggie for your great contibution to so many.
From:
Kalamazoo, Mich
E-mail:
Blochparty454@cs.com
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Jo Gratsch
Monday, 8/21/00, 5:03 PM
From:
Plainwell, MI
E-mail:
cjasgratsch@voyager.net
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Gina
Tuesday, 8/15/00, 5:12 PM
mags- I don't know why I waited so long to visit this web site, such a
wonderful job was done on it, and I'm so proud of you for touching the lives
of so many. My biggest regret in this lifetime was letting so many trivial things
limit our friendship from it's true potential. And I wish with all my heart that
you were still here so I could tell you how much you meant to me and how
much you taught me as a fellow musician, and a confidant and as a caring
friend. Someday I hope I will get lucky enough to be in the same place as
you are now, maybe we'll play our horns together and laugh and gossip- just
like the good old times. love you gina
From:
Plainwell
E-mail:
Geanna20@aol.com
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Kevin Lawrence
Saturday, 7/15/00, 6:05 PM
From:
Plainwell, MI
E-mail:
bugman_30@hotmail.com
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Mark Popovich
Wednesday, 7/5/00, 1:09 PM
I consider myself to be very lucky to have known Maggie. Given her drive,
intelligence, personality and ability to work with others, there was no limit on
what she could have achieved and the lives she would have touched. I feel a
great loss. Mark
From:
New Kensington, PA
E-mail:
popovich.mark@us.adtranz.com
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jean
Tuesday, 6/20/00, 11:56 AM
I made it! This site is a wonderful tribute to Maggie. Maggie is in the heart
and thoughts of so many. I miss you Maggie.
From:
mattawan
E-mail:
prandine@cs.com
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Gillian
Thursday, 6/1/00, 11:01 AM
Dear Maggie~ i have started playing golf just in the last year. i wish we
would have had a chance to play together. i miss you.
From:
Plainwell
E-mail:
vanstra3@msu.edu
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Mary Condit
Saturday, 5/27/00, 11:33 AM
What a beautiful tribute! All of us at Holder, though we perhaps did not
know Maggie, can see what a special influence she had on her family and
friends and how very much she is missed... our thoughts and prayers are with
you.
From:
Holder - KPH
E-mail:
conkal@netzero.com
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Joy Stafford
Saturday, 5/27/00, 11:28 AM
From:
KPH
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Carrie Carlson
Tuesday, 5/23/00, 8:19 AM
From:
Plainwell
E-mail:
ccarlson@syr.edu
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Julie Stiver
Saturday, 5/20/00, 5:31 AM
I think about Maggie often and I still cry sometimes. She seemed to have a
sparkle about her that's hard to describe. I will always treasure memories of
her. When she was young, together we planned a birthday party for her
mother. We had the best time making dinner, the birthday cake, and special
treats for the party. I love you Maggie.
From: Schoolcraft Michigan
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David Fatzinger
Thursday, 5/18/00, 12:00 PM
I should have looked this up earlier. I saw Martha and Rick on TV
advocating for greater controls on guns. I generally don't support such
approaches but being closely associated with two gun related deaths of
children of dear friends I've had to rethink my position. I'm not sure what is
practical and effective but I do think buying a gun should be treated more
seriously on more closely monitored than it is now.
From:
KPH
E-mail:
Fatzinger@state.mi.us
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Mike & Kathy WESNER
Wednesday, 5/17/00, 3:00 PM
Dear Rick & Martha, We very deeply sadden by your loss. We have fond
memories of Maggie. We miss her. Love, Matt, Steve, Mike, and Kathy
(SIEMBOR) WESNER
From:
Livonia, MI
E-mail:
mewesner@flash.net
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Adrienne Matteson
Monday, 5/15/00, 8:41 PM
I met Maggie in second grade. She were in girl scouts, band and jazz band,
and many classes together. I am sorry to say that we were not close friends,
but I always liked and admired her very much. It is scary that we could lose
such a bright and beautiful person in such a mannor. But one as wonderfully
alive as Maggie can never really die. I will never forget her.
From:
Plainwell, MI
E-mail:
queenaddie@yahoo.com
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Erin
Monday, 5/15/00, 2:49 PM
I knew Maggie since sixth grade and I knew her step- dad since elementary
school. Though we were never extremely close, I still looked up to her and
wanted to be like her. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. We miss
you Maggie.
From:
Plainwell
E-mail:
reaganmi@earthlink.net
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Marcia Aten
Monday, 5/15/00, 8:46 AM
As the mother of Hilary, Maggie's suitemate last year at K, and as a K
alumna, I just wanted you to know that you all are very much in my thoughts
and prayers, especially Maggie's mom. Hilary was so moved by your
courage and compassion at the time of Maggie's death, and we greatly
admire your participation in the Million Mom march activities yesterday. I
cannot imagine the pain you have been through in these last months. Hilary,
like I suspect many K students, has struggled to come to terms with this
terrible event, and I know that your efforts to remember Maggie by working
to spare others from such tragedies will be a continuing inspiration to them.
Thank you, and my prayers that the joy of Maggie's life will continue to
comfort you in your loss.
From:
Alpena, MI
E-mail:
maten@northland.lib.mi.us
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fred boland
Friday, 5/5/00, 5:21 PM
Susan Omillian is a client and friend in CT. My father was murdered
8-17-97. He was shot in his front yard by junkies. He shot back once fatally
wounded. 5-4-00 the man my father shot back at and wounded was
convicted of felony murder, and a few other charges. Dad's expert handling
of a firearm marked his assailant who gave up the goods on his accomplices
while in the hospital for his gunshot wounds. A loss is so hard to accept.
Young, old, murder is so unnatural. Dad was a very young 52 and had
become a proud grandfather for the second time only one month before his
death. We need to find answers and understand how to help one another
prevent senseless acts of violence. At the same time self defense must be
preserved as a fundamental right and we must not handicap the law abiding
with legislation that only the conscientous abide by. I had occasion to speak
of Maggie's circumstances while in group conversation during a class at
Trinity College. Two students lost their lives due to alcohol and pill
combination abuse. No one who knew them we surprised just as I am told
of Maggie's assailant's behavior. Connectivity without the threat of
administrative action could help, I believe. This was not taken very well by
the stundents who I charged with the moral obligation to act upon the
potentially lethal behavior they had observed many times before tragedy
struck. Perhaps as a parent, I have perspective unique from most of my
fellow students. God bless all in the healing process FAB
From:
CT
E-mail:
faboland@snet.net
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Kate
Wednesday, 4/26/00, 9:31 PM
Maggie- Although we hadn't really talked for a while, your death has been
really painful for me. We met in fourth grade, were in Girl Scouts together,
marching band, and many classes right through high school. We stood
together at graduation, proud to be part of Plainwell's top ten. Then on to
Kalamazoo College, to take our future by the reins. I am so very sorry I
didn't get to know you better. I remember talking to you that Saturday
morning at brunch. It was the first time we'd really talked in a long time. I
know that that conversation was a gift, and one I was blessed to receive. I
am so very sorry this happened to you, Maggie. You have been a powerful
lesson to me, and so many others I'm sure. You have changed the way I
look at life - it is truly a blessing. Love Kate
From:
Hagadone
E-mail:
k98kh01@kzoo.edu
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Rick Halpert
Saturday, 4/22/00, 1:33 PM
This is a wonderful site.
From:
Kalamazoo
E-mail:
halpertr@aol.com
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marti and hermann bloch
Wednesday, 4/19/00, 2:43 PM
How tragic! How sad! What a waste of a beautiful, talented person.
Everyone involved will always feel the pain until we join you in heaven. May
God give a special healing deep into the hearts of the immediate family.
Marti. Our lives have been enriched by the touch of this beautiful one. Yes,
it's sad because many more would have also been enriched. The memories
help us go on and you will not be forgotten...until we meet again...Hermann
From:
kalamazoo, mi
E-mail:
blochparty454@cs.com
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Amanda Glas
Saturday, 4/15/00, 8:28 AM
I didn't know Maggie very well. I golfed with her my freshman year at
Plainwell. She was someone I looked up to and someone I had a great deal
of respect for. She always went out of her way to say hi to me and that
always made me feel like I was someone special to her. Her death has been
very hard for me to cope with and I know that she will always have a special
place in my heart.
From:
Plainwell, MI
E-mail:
AGGLAS@AOL.COM
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rick glas
Friday, 4/14/00, 4:02 PM
maggie was a very sweet girl and i will miss her
From:
kalamazoo
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Jon Greeney
Friday, 4/14/00, 12:38 PM
I met Maggie's brother Rob in middle school. We became good friends and
over the years I developed quite a relationship with the rest of his family
including Maggie. She was always a kind person and treated people in a
gentle manner. Her passing made me realize how special and precious every
moment is spent while we are here. Let us all remember that, and cherish
every moment of life that passes because we never know what can happen. I
was lucky enough to cherish every moment I spent with Maggie and her
family, and because of that I have beautiful memories. She will always have a
place in my heart and I will never forget her.
From:
Milwaukee WI
E-mail:
jgreeney@peabody.jhu.edu
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erin
Wednesday, 4/12/00, 11:25 PM
mags- I was thinking about you tonite-I miss you more now than I ever
thought possible-I hope you are in a better place and I pray that you are
looking over me.
From:
kalamazoo college
E-mail:
erin 1224@aol.com
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Nick Duiker
Tuesday, 4/11/00, 2:21 PM
I had known Maggie for the last year or so, and the time that I had spent
with her was special. She was not like any other girl that I had met. I wish
that we could of truly gotten to know each other because I know she would
of amazed me. I think about her all the time: her smile, her humor, her
inteligance, and her amazing beauty. I pray for all of her friends and family
every day. I wish things could of been different and I am truly sorry.
From:
Cleveland, Oh.
E-mail:
k97nd03
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Megan and Jan Manske
Wednesday, 4/5/00, 5:07 PM
I feel sorry for you because your daughter died. It was stupid to kill Maggie
and then himself. I hope that your sadness gets better. I hope Maggie meets
my uncle Paul up in heavan.
From:
Portage, MI
E-mail:
jmanske@gateway.net
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Gillian S. VanStratt
Tuesday, 4/4/00, 8:46 PM
This is a wonerful tribute to Maggie. I went to high school with her, and miss
her a lot. It's hard to find words to put down that will articulate the tribute
that she deserves, but I am glad that I can write something. Thoughts of
Maggie often run through my mind, and I hope that somehow she knows
that.
From:
Plainwell, MI
E-mail:
vanstra3@msu.edu
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Grandma Omilian
Sunday, 4/2/00, 3:12 PM
Dear Maggie, I miss you so much, but the memories of you are so beautiful
and precious. You are always on my mind and in my thoughts. I know you
are at peace with the angels. Thank you for the precious years we were able
to share together. You are a wonderful grand-daughter. Love you, Grandma
O.
From:
Detroit
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Celie Rossi
Friday, 3/31/00, 1:55 PM
What a beautiful and wonderul Tribute to Maggie. While viewing her web
site, thelove for her can truly be felt, as well as the deep sorrow of her loss.
She'll always be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
From:
Grass Lake, MI
E-mail:
celiarossi@prodigy.net
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Bob Cole
Friday, 3/31/00, 6:22 AM
I have followed the story of Maggie's tragic death through my dear friend,
Susan Omilian. I've been deeply saddened by the loss of Maggie's life, when
her life was only just beginning. This web page is a wonderful tribute to her
memory, and keeps her spirit alive for many to share. My heart goes out to
the family and many friends Maggie left behind.
From:
Hamden, CT
E-mail:
RACole@aol.com
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Pearl Padden
Monday, 3/27/00, 10:03 AM
We are friends of Susan Omilian's, and were so sorry to here of your
devastating loss. Your Maggie must have been a wonderful person, from
what we have read, and we share your grief. Sincerely, Pearl Padden
From:
Lakeview, MI
E-mail:
paddenlp@pathwaynet.com
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Alan Baker
Friday, 3/10/00, 5:47 AM
I am Leza Frederickson's high school golf coach. She informed me of this
site yesterday. It is a beautiful tribute and memorial of Maggie. Leza has told
me quite a bit of their friendship. I will attempt to arrange a four-some to play
in the Golf Benefit in July. Please keep me informed of details. Our prayers
are with you all.
From:
Pinckney, MI
E-mail:
acbaker@online.emich.edu
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Kelly Schulte
Monday, 3/6/00, 10:39 PM
IF only I could become as strong, beautiful, intelligent and caring as you have
been in your life...I will never forget your smile, your laugh, your
support...You have made me a better person. I think of you daily and will
never forget you. I love you.
From:
Birmingham, Mi
E-mail:
k98ks02@kzoo.edu
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Rick
Thursday, 3/2/00, 4:30 PM
Each day moves us a little further on, but every moment there is a memory of
you
From:
Home
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Kelly Laker
Thursday, 3/2/00, 2:03 PM
From:
PHS
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Sue Root
Friday, 2/18/00, 10:44 AM
Thank you for this web site. It has brought tears and smiles remembering
Maggie.
From:
Plainwell
E-mail:
rprroot@aol.com
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DAD
Monday, 2/14/00, 9:16 AM
Maggie, Happy Valentines Day. I'll always love you. DAD
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Leza Frederickson
Saturday, 2/12/00, 5:08 PM
I have waited to sign this because I have been trying to put my feelings into
words. Unfortunantly, I still don't know how to say exactly how I feel. I miss
Maggie very much, and the way that her smile would light up a room. What
happened to Maggie was horribe and senseless, but I know that she is in a
better place, and one day I hope to be with her again. I love you Maggie.
From:
Pinckney, MI
E-mail:
k98lf02@kzoo.edu
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Scott and Vicki
Friday, 2/11/00, 7:44 AM
From:
RI
E-mail:
desj@brainiac.com
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BOB ZEDECK
Wednesday, 2/9/00, 11:06 AM
WHAT A WONDERFUL WEBSITE. THANK YOU FOR SHARING
MAGGIE THIS WAY.... REMEMBER, EVERY DAY, WE GET ONE
DAY CLOSER TO BEING REUNITED WITH OUR CHILDREN
AGAIN.. FOREVER!!!! SINCERELY BOB Z.
From:
T.C.F.
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Joe Selent
Tuesday, 2/8/00, 12:51 PM
From:
Otsego
E-mail:
bikeguy15@aol.com
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Cathy Pacifico
Sunday, 2/6/00, 4:10 PM
I only know Maggie through the words of her Aunt Susan. She was a
prescious gift to her family and friends and a beautiful young women. I pray
that God will bring you peace.
From:
Atlanta, GA
E-mail:
tappergirl @ mindspring.com
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Patrice
Fitzgerald
Sunday, 2/6/00, 3:22 PM
Beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time, this site is truly a tribute of love.
Susan, thank you for giving those of us who didn't know Maggie a glimpse of
her humanity. What a loss. I like to think that her spirit is still around us, in
the sunshine and the snowdrifts; in the hearts of her family and the others that
she touched during her beautiful, too-short life.
From:
West Hartford, CT
E-mail:
FitzBarth@prodigy.net
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Linda Gould
Friday, 2/4/00, 4:58 PM
My heart goes out to Maggie's entire family. We can only believe such a
wonderful person is in a better place no
From:
South Salem, NY
E-mail:
lgould@bestweb.net
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Angela
Millward
Wednesday, 2/2/00, 5:50 PM
The loss of a loved one is never easy, but time does heal the heart. I know
this for I lost my sister many years ago. My thoughts and prayers go out to
everyone touched by this tragedy. Maggie was truely a dear person and will
be remembered by her ambition and achievements.
From:
PLainwell
E-mail:
partysweets@aol.com
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Kathy
Millward
Wednesday, 2/2/00, 5:05 PM
My husband and I lost our oldest daughter 15 years ago this May. It seems
like only yesterday at times and at other times I can hardly remember her.
You are so fortunate to have this technology that allows so many more
people to express their heartfelt wishes for your entire family. What I
remember most about Maggie is the maturity with which she handled her job
as score keeper at the boys' basketball games.
From:
Plainwell
E-mail:
kathymillward@hotmail.com
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kristie marie
Tuesday, 2/1/00, 2:41 PM
From:
i am the girl from next door
E-mail:
krismarieg@hotmail.com
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Joe Kovacic
Monday, 1/31/00, 7:38 PM
It was unfortunate that I only had the pleasure of Maggie's company a few
times. Every time I reflect on what's happened since, I am reminded of how
lucky everyone of us who carry her memory are. It is of some comfort to
know that she will be immortal, because she certainly will not be forgotten.
To all Maggie's family and friends I send my condolences for our lose.
From:
East Lansing, MI
E-mail:
kovacicj@pilot.msu.edu
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Toni Rulo
Monday, 1/31/00, 2:00 PM
From:
Hartford, Ct.
E-mail:
arulo@snet.net
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DAD
Monday, 1/31/00, 6:26 AM
I'll always love you
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Emily Hanlon
Sunday, 1/30/00, 1:46 PM
Hi, As a friend of Susan's I my feelings and heart have been very much
involved in your loss. It is a shattering experience that also speaks the
endurance of the human spirit. It is amazing how Maggie still touches peoples
lives. She has mine. in peace and love Emily Hanlon
From:
New York
Web Site:
Writing, the Passionate Journey
E-mail:
emily@emilyhanlon.com
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Virginia Nadybal
Sunday, 1/30/00, 10:38 AM
I'm a friend of Maggie's grandmother.
From:
Pittsburgh, PA
E-mail:
vnadybal@yahoo.com
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Megan Neary
Friday, 1/28/00, 9:13 AM
It is beautiful and this will be wonderful for my kids. It is very special and
well done. Thankyou Meg
From:
Pa
E-mail:
MMNeary@aol.com
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Gail Stults
Wednesday, 1/26/00, 9:13 AM
I only had the chance to be around Maggie a few times and yet I remember
those times very clearly. Maggie came across as such a warm and outgoing
young woman. She obviously enjoyed life and her friends. I remember taking
her and Sarah to Chicago twice. The first time they were going to Cancun for
spring break, and the second time we were seeing Sarah off to Mexico for
the fall semester. The girls laughed and played their CDs all the way there.
Such friendship warms the hearts of those of us who are simply close by. I
remember Maggie being so gentle and attentive to Rebecca, Sarah's
youngest sister, on our way back to Plainwell after seeing Sarah off at the
airport. Maggie's concern and love for her friend's little sister was a
wonderful thing to watch and listen to. I grieve for you her family, for her
friends who will always miss her, and for those of us who did not have
enough time to get to know her better.
From:
Kalamazoo, MI
E-mail:
gstults@nulty.com
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Brad
Tuesday, 1/18/00, 12:49 PM
Maggie was the most intellegent person I have ever met. She had
everything going for her; nothing could stop Maggie. She was the only girl I
knew as stubborn on her views as me. She was also the only girl that has
ever beaten me at golf. She would do what ever it took to win, and to
succeed. We had been talking again a lot before she was gone. I can't help
but think about her everyday looking for a way to change what happened,
but I know it's too late now. What I would give to just talk to her one more
time. I miss her so much, I'm sure we all do. At least I know that she is
playing on the best golf course ever, against the best golfer ever, but she will
surely give him a run for the money. We all will always Love you Maggie.
From:
Plainwell, MI
E-mail:
smizasch@hotmail.com
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Jen Simson
Tuesday, 1/18/00, 9:40 AM
A beautiful tribute to a young woman who was clearly as beautiful on the
inside as she was on the outside. Susan Omillian has told me much about
how wonderful Maggie was. These pages do reflect that.
From:
West Hartford, CT
E-mail:
jenifersimson@HOME.com
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Alex Richards
Tuesday, 1/18/00, 5:41 AM
I never knew Maggie in person, but I somehow feel that I did from all that I
heard about her from Linda. I wanted to say, how much I am thinking of you
all, and that in you it seems there will always be Maggie.
From:
Great Britain
E-mail:
hils@euroseek.com
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ROBIN BEACHAM
Monday, 1/17/00, 10:00 AM
This is a wonderful way to honor Maggie and keep her memory alive. You
have made sure that she did not die in vain. She was lucky to have been
raised in such a loving and supportive family. I know she knew how much
she was loved. I hope that gives you peace. Love, Robin
From: LAWTON, MI
E-mail: rob711in@aol.com
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Tom Holloway
Monday, 1/17/00, 5:01 AM
Thanks for sharing your memories/photos of Maggie. I think you have done
well with this website to your tribute to Maggie. I visit here frequently to see
about updates. May God comfort you and ease your pain. ....Tom Hollo
From: Mattawan, Mi.
E-mail: holloway@macconnect.com
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Jess Williams
Sunday, 1/16/00, 12:55 PM
I always looked up to Maggie and will always find truth when I think of her.
I'm so saddened by such a terrible loss. My heart goes out to my aunt and
uncle, and to Bob and Sandi. And I know Rob feels the loss as much as any
of us.
From: Rensselaer, IN
E-mail: jay422@hotmail.com
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Aunt Linda
Sunday, 1/16/00, 12:33 PM
Maggie was a shining star in our family. She was the one who always wanted
to try new things; and encouraged the rest of us to try them too. Not an hour
goes by in the day when I do not miss her, she will live in my heart forever.
From: Rensselaer,IN
E-mail: lucy@euroseek.com
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Jessie Davis
Sunday, 1/16/00, 9:01 AM
Maggie was a friend in high school, and I regret that I didn't keep in touch
when she went to college. I admired her because she was so talented, very
beautiful, and a leader in her class. I wish now that I could tell her so. I have
many memories of being in her section in band, rooming with her at band
camp, and playing the piano with her in jazz band. I thank God for those
memories, and pray for her family and friends. Wi
From: Plainwell, attending Hope College
E-mail: jessica.davis@hope.edu
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Michele Sterner
Saturday, 1/15/00, 1:12 PM
I regret that I only knew Maggie as a young child, but it is as if it were
yesterday that I watched her look out the screen door at a dog in the
back-yard (she was about 1 1/2) shouting "za puppy...za puppy" and
jumping up and down. I also remember the smile that was always on her face
when she awoke. My thoughts and prayers are with Maggie's family, and all
whose lives Maggie touched.
From: Tulsa, Oklahoma
E-mail: michele@fittulsa.com
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Candice E. Deboer
Saturday, 1/15/00, 8:22 AM
What is there to say? She was a great friend and I loved her. The pain that
fills my heart overflows and covers the rest of my soul. I miss her more than I
can express in words and think of her in every moment of every day. She is
the greatest loss we can suffer. Me Ke Aloha Maggie Candice DeBoer
From: Plainwell
E-mail: candice_nmfs69@hotmail.com
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Emily Moerman
Friday, 1/14/00, 6:34 PM
Im terribly sorry about your loss. I hope you are all doing well, my heart is
with you.
From: Plainwell
E-mail: emilymoerman@hotmail.com
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STERRY VANDER MEER
Friday, 1/14/00, 8:51 AM
TO BOB & SANDY WE WILL BE BEST FRIENDS FOREVER.
STERRY & LOIS
From: PORTAGE, MI
E-mail: LENS1@net-link.net
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Beth Brenner
Thursday, 1/13/00, 6:52 PM
Maggie was my section leader in band for two years. We weren't as much a
section as a mini-family. I will never forget all of the times we spent talking
about life and boys, or marching around with our theme songs and attitudes
that we were the best!! She was a super person and taught me more then
she will ever know.
From: Plainwell
E-mail: BethAnn685@yahoo.com
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Heidi Fahrenbacher
Thursday, 1/13/00, 1:09 PM
Hello, This whole situation still haunts me and will for a long time to come. I
home that I do my best to honor Maggie's memory and I want you to know
not a day goes by that I do not think of her or of you, the family. You are in
my prayers always. Love, Heidi
From: Plainwell
E-mail: k98hf01@kzoo.edu
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Kelly Olson
Thursday, 1/13/00, 7:36 AM
I remember the fun times the whole horn line had at my first year of
bandcamp. From water fights to painting our faces with zink oxcide. It
seemed that Maggie was behind it all. She tought me how not to march, and
how the drum major is never on tempo, and the best section was us.
From: Plainwell
E-mail: tkellyo@hotmail.com
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Aunt Deena
Wednesday, 1/12/00, 10:52 AM
It is very hard to think of Maggie and not grieve. The ach inside will not go
away. Many days I know Maggie is with me, or has guided me on a path I
normally would not have taken. She was a shining star in our family and we
all miss her and love her.
From: Maggies family
E-mail: dbindema@wmcc.com
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J'nai Leafers
Tuesday, 1/11/00, 9:21 PM
Maggie and I were roommates this past year. We had so much fun up in our
room even we had to do our homework. We would talk until all hours of the
night and our phone never stopped ringing. Everyone called to talk to
Maggie about what was going on in their lives. She was so caring and
thoughtful that it didn't matter what time of the day you were calling, she
would always take time out for you. Everyone was special to her and she
treated each person like they were the most important thing in the world to
her.
From: Muskegon Mi
E-mail: k98jl01@kzoo.edu
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Erin Rome
Tuesday, 1/11/00, 8:20 PM
Maggie was one of my best friends in the world. She was so sensitive,
caring, smart, beautiful, and above all one of the most loyal and wonderful
friends I have ever had. Her death was senseless and horrible. The thought
there are so many people in the world who never got to know this amazing
young woman is tragic. I will miss her tremendously until my dying day and
can only hope that I will make her proud and that we will meet again
someday. She was truely an angel.
From: Kalamazoo College
E-mail: k98er03@kzoo.edu
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Emily Ford
Tuesday, 1/11/00, 8:15 PM
I only knew Maggie for a very short time but she made my life much fuller in
the time that I knew her. One day we joked that we were kindred spirits and
I'll never forget her kindness towards me. Each day I pray for her family and
friends because her bright smile is sorely missed. I love you Maggie.
From: Kalamazoo College
E-mail: k99ef02@kzoo.edu
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Mary Truitt
Tuesday, 1/11/00, 2:55 PM
From: Plainwell, MI
E-mail: x98truitt@wmich.edu
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Sean
Sunday, 1/9/00, 9:37 PM
From: Plainwell
E-mail: Studuse34@aol.com
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Mary Ayres
Sunday, 1/9/00, 6:03 PM
thank you so much for making this site to celebrate the life of maggie. she
was a beautiful person and like a sister to me. she will always be loved!
From:
Plainwell
E-mail:
mary.ayres@hope.edu
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Shem Johnson
Sunday, 1/9/00, 3:45 PM
From: Plainwell
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Jani Fisher
Saturday, 1/8/00, 7:27 PM
This website is a beautiful as well as educational tribute to Maggie's life. I
came to know her as I was Sarah Ayres' roommate at Hope. Maggie was
with us when we all took a crazy trip to Cancun Mexico for spring break.
She was such a beautiful person. So fun to be around and get to know. She
had a great sense of humor that I envied! I remember the time we while on
vacation, that we visited the Mayan Ruins. We were so sure we would fit
something halfway educational into our vacation. I have a picture of Maggie,
Sarah, another friend, Elsa, and I sitting on the former "throne" of a Mayan
ruler. We are on top of the world! Maybe that's where Maggie is today...just
keeping an eye out so we all stay in line!
From: Fruitport Michigan--Attending Hope College
E-mail: fj501802@hope.edu
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Aunt Elaine
Saturday, 1/8/00, 4:03 PM
We think of you in silence. We often speak your name. We have the
precious memories, your picture in a frame. Your memory is our keepsake
with which we'll never part. God has you in his keeping. We have you in our
hearts.
From: Grand Rapids
E-mail: sowa3@worldnet.att.net
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Paula Fox
Saturday, 1/8/00, 1:09 PM
I'm sorry. Paula
From: Kalamazoo
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Maggie's Family
Saturday, 1/8/00, 1:00 PM
This is our family's tribute to Maggie who we miss dearly. Please browse it
and leave us a message in the guestbook or on email. We'd love to hear from
you. Please remember Maggie and keep her in your heart!
From: Plainwell, Kalamazoo and Detroit
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Sarah Ayres
Saturday, 1/8/00, 12:45 PM
Maggie was a wonderful friend to me. I always thought of her as another
sister in my family. We met in the 7th grade and were friends ever since. She
was kind, intelligent, witty, funny, and so much more. She had something
about her that made people want to get to know her and once they did they
were never the same after being in contact with such a real person. Some of
the things I remember about Maggie are playing basketball together, being in
marching and jazz band, playing the piano together, and talking on the phone
for hours about anything and everything. I miss you Mags! With love, Sarah
From: Plainwell
E-mail: as704302@hope.edu
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Kari Hurlbut
Friday, 1/7/00, 9:04 PM
I worked with Maggie when she first started at the funeral home. I wish that I
knew her more than I did. I have good memories of her and will remember
the times with her with a big smile. Thank you for letting me see more about
her life.
From: Gobles, Michigan
E-mail: khurlbut@albion.edu
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Friday, 1/7/00, 12:55 PM
Maggie liked to help others and remained focussed on her own goals.She
probably had few regrets about her life.I always had high hopes for her and
felt proud of her achievements.Let us remember maggie for what she was
and the values she represented.
